Don’t know how to handle they got defeat..
In most of cases, not everyone know how to accept defeat because never been in that situation. Nowadays, you can only target one specific belt or person. If the defeat is not being part of your daily, will be hard to swallow when happens.
Is better to accept and don’t get injury. JiuJitsu is the best format of Martial Arts near to crumble your ego. Be prepare. Will happen. Only don’t if you not training Brazilian JiuJitsu.
Level of Training.
For the ones that believe they should train 1000% all the time, to be success in competitions, you are totally wrong. Won’t help you and won’t make you better, you will be more open for injures.
Results.
Losing a sparring session will be normal if you want progress. The student that only spar 1000% and win all the time, wont get it when the lost occur. Why ? Because never happen inside the dojo. From Child to Ages forward, everyone should understand there’s always someone training more than you. Even more than me! I am okay with that as long there’s constant in my work.
Ambience.
For last, the ambience of a dojo will make you want to come back. Brotherhood; Friendship; Camaraderie; Sportsmanship are elements that help dilute animosity inside the dojo. Take care of your partner and help them improve so you can improve as well as a human. Even if a injure occur, you still can talk with your Professor how can the training can be adaptive for you.
Take Care.
Make a Excuse to Train JiuJitsu.
See you next time!